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		<title>Comment on Listen to This! by Trisha Liu (@mor_trisha)</title>
		<link>http://michellelavoie.com/2011/11/18/listen-to-this/#comment-46</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Trisha Liu (@mor_trisha)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 17:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think I see what you are saying. How does a customer know I am listening if I don&#039;t act, at least to say &#039;I am listening, please go on.&#039;

I agree that listening provides the fuel for action. But I think business leaders skip over the value of just listening. Customers and employees still don&#039;t feel heard. Companies put up FB pages, and then broadcast but don&#039;t respond. So, the perception out there is that people **aren&#039;t** listening.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think I see what you are saying. How does a customer know I am listening if I don&#8217;t act, at least to say &#8216;I am listening, please go on.&#8217;</p>
<p>I agree that listening provides the fuel for action. But I think business leaders skip over the value of just listening. Customers and employees still don&#8217;t feel heard. Companies put up FB pages, and then broadcast but don&#8217;t respond. So, the perception out there is that people **aren&#8217;t** listening.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Listen to This! by mlavoie9</title>
		<link>http://michellelavoie.com/2011/11/18/listen-to-this/#comment-45</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 17:32:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great perspective, Trisha.  I just think that the word listening, to the broader business community, is a passive and static activity.

Searching for a better word or phrase to describe that listening is not the outcome, but rather fuels intelligence and our ability to actively engage (another much overused SoMe term) customers, partners, and employees.

Something to think about]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great perspective, Trisha.  I just think that the word listening, to the broader business community, is a passive and static activity.</p>
<p>Searching for a better word or phrase to describe that listening is not the outcome, but rather fuels intelligence and our ability to actively engage (another much overused SoMe term) customers, partners, and employees.</p>
<p>Something to think about</p>
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		<title>Comment on Listen to This! by Trisha Liu (@mor_trisha)</title>
		<link>http://michellelavoie.com/2011/11/18/listen-to-this/#comment-44</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Trisha Liu (@mor_trisha)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 17:22:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hmm.... would &#039;lurking&#039; be a better word? I agree that &#039;listening&#039; is much more than monitoring mentions and reporting on them. But in response to people who have asked &#039;What should I **do** first to get started in social?&#039; I have heard Rachel Happe answer &#039;Don&#039;t do anything - Lurk first.&#039; I agree with this. 

Maybe &#039;listening&#039; is one of those &#039;it should go without saying&#039; items? Except that it **doesn&#039;t** go without saying. It really seems that people forget: Listening must happen first. 

I would add to the list of what listening is not: 
- Spray and pray broadcasting
- Starting a blog because the other guys have one

I listen to learn what is important to others. It doesn&#039;t have to be just rants or raves to respond to - what are people (my customers and fellow employees) interested in? I also listen to gauge sentiment, as you have highlighted. This listening then **informs** my future action. But, I don&#039;t have to act on/respond to everything I hear. 

I wouldn&#039;t call it engagement or conversation yet. But listening is the starting point. Listening allows me to meet the other person where she is, and give that starting point engagement and conversation more relevance and connection.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm&#8230;. would &#8216;lurking&#8217; be a better word? I agree that &#8216;listening&#8217; is much more than monitoring mentions and reporting on them. But in response to people who have asked &#8216;What should I **do** first to get started in social?&#8217; I have heard Rachel Happe answer &#8216;Don&#8217;t do anything &#8211; Lurk first.&#8217; I agree with this. </p>
<p>Maybe &#8216;listening&#8217; is one of those &#8216;it should go without saying&#8217; items? Except that it **doesn&#8217;t** go without saying. It really seems that people forget: Listening must happen first. </p>
<p>I would add to the list of what listening is not:<br />
- Spray and pray broadcasting<br />
- Starting a blog because the other guys have one</p>
<p>I listen to learn what is important to others. It doesn&#8217;t have to be just rants or raves to respond to &#8211; what are people (my customers and fellow employees) interested in? I also listen to gauge sentiment, as you have highlighted. This listening then **informs** my future action. But, I don&#8217;t have to act on/respond to everything I hear. </p>
<p>I wouldn&#8217;t call it engagement or conversation yet. But listening is the starting point. Listening allows me to meet the other person where she is, and give that starting point engagement and conversation more relevance and connection.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Who Could Plan for This? by taerij</title>
		<link>http://michellelavoie.com/2011/07/27/who-could-plan-for-this/#comment-32</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[taerij]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 15:23:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[HnE1MJ  &lt;a href=&quot;http://lmvydpfbdmjo.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;lmvydpfbdmjo&lt;/a&gt;]]></description>
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		<title>Comment on Who Could Plan for This? by xofywcv</title>
		<link>http://michellelavoie.com/2011/07/27/who-could-plan-for-this/#comment-24</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xofywcv]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 11:42:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on It&#8217;s Not a Hierarchical Folder Structure by Trisha Liu (@mor_trisha)</title>
		<link>http://michellelavoie.com/2011/09/27/its-not-a-hierarchical-folder-structure/#comment-12</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Trisha Liu (@mor_trisha)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2011 20:50:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amen! Excellent post, I could not agree more! I had a request for a new &#039;page&#039; recently that made me want to shout &#039;Our community is not a website!&#039;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen! Excellent post, I could not agree more! I had a request for a new &#8216;page&#8217; recently that made me want to shout &#8216;Our community is not a website!&#8217;</p>
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		<title>Comment on It&#8217;s only words&#8230;&#8230;. by Pat</title>
		<link>http://michellelavoie.com/2011/08/02/its-only-words/#comment-7</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 01:31:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would like to ban vulgarity, young people (and some older folks who know better), seem to think it is cool to use the F_ _ _ word.  I find it offensive.  Do they think they are having a one on one conversation with their frends, hello the whole world is listening!!!! 

Just my two cents!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would like to ban vulgarity, young people (and some older folks who know better), seem to think it is cool to use the F_ _ _ word.  I find it offensive.  Do they think they are having a one on one conversation with their frends, hello the whole world is listening!!!! </p>
<p>Just my two cents!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Who Could Plan for This? by mlavoie8</title>
		<link>http://michellelavoie.com/2011/07/27/who-could-plan-for-this/#comment-6</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mlavoie8]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 09:53:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ah, Tricia, soul sistas!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, Tricia, soul sistas!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Who Could Plan for This? by Trisha Liu</title>
		<link>http://michellelavoie.com/2011/07/27/who-could-plan-for-this/#comment-5</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Trisha Liu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jul 2011 21:18:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ah... Michelle. More reasons why I like you are surfacing! 
1) Also a sociology major (just because I took the 101 course and loved it).
2) Never liked having to answer the 5-year plan question in interviews. Who can plan for that, indeed! And like you, look where I have ended up so far... Ahh.... &lt;3

Here&#039;s to openness, serendipity, exploration, adventure, and fellow travelers!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah&#8230; Michelle. More reasons why I like you are surfacing!<br />
1) Also a sociology major (just because I took the 101 course and loved it).<br />
2) Never liked having to answer the 5-year plan question in interviews. Who can plan for that, indeed! And like you, look where I have ended up so far&#8230; Ahh&#8230;. &lt;3</p>
<p>Here&#039;s to openness, serendipity, exploration, adventure, and fellow travelers!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Who Could Plan for This? by mlavoie8</title>
		<link>http://michellelavoie.com/2011/07/27/who-could-plan-for-this/#comment-4</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mlavoie8]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jul 2011 15:28:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The best of plans.....there&#039;s a balance between sticking to a plan and being open to adjustment based on current circumstances.  Who would have ever thought of a social media job five years ago?  Not me!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best of plans&#8230;..there&#8217;s a balance between sticking to a plan and being open to adjustment based on current circumstances.  Who would have ever thought of a social media job five years ago?  Not me!</p>
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